How to be that girl: Becoming Your Best Self
Want to know how to be that girl? I got you! Let’s be real; we all want to be “That Girl” so bad.
The problem is that sometimes the hard work scares us into giving it all up.
If you want to become that girl, you’ll have to commit to the process and hold yourself accountable.
So what does it actually mean to be that girl? Many people have different opinions on what this actually means, and you probably have your own definition of what it means.
It’s about improving your life and getting rid of unhealthy areas of your lifestyle you’re not happy with.
Today I’ll be giving you the basics of what you can do to become that girl.
In a sense, it’s like deciding to be the main character of your life and becoming your best self.
Hopefully, these tips will help you find inspiration and courage to start working towards becoming that girl.
7 Insanely Good Tips On How To Be That Girl
1. Know who you are
The first thing you’ll have to do if you want to be that girl is knowing yourself.
Take some time to get to know what your values in life are, what you hate the most, and what you love.
Get clear on how you want to live your life and the things that you can’t tolerate.
Trust me, doing this will save you a looot of time. When you know yourself, and what you stand for, society can’t force you into becoming someone else.
When you know your worth, and what you really want, that’s when you become someone who doesn’t settle for less.
So if you want to know how to be that girl, know who you are first.
2. Start working on your goals
Babe, you’ll actually have to start working on your goals if you want to be that girl.
I know how easy it is to plan out all of those big dreams without putting in work.
I also used to do that until I decided to start working on my dreams, even though it seemed scary. So if you’re scared of working on your dreams, just start.
The best way to do this is by breaking bigger goals into smaller goals that are easy to start working on.
So starting today, ask yourself this question ” What can I do right now to get closer to my biggest goal?”.
It doesn’t matter how small of a step it seems. The most important thing is that you start working on your goals.
3. Cut off toxic friends
You literally need to start cutting toxic friends out of your life.
You can’t be that girl if you hang around negative people every day.
They’re always going to drain your energy and make you feel like shit. I can’t even tell you how happy I’ve been and how much progress I’ve made in life after cutting off my toxic friends.
Start surrounding yourself with people who bring out the best of you and who actually motivate you to be that girl.
If you want to cut off some toxic friends but don’t know how to do it, start here.
If you’re unsure whether some people in your life are toxic, go through these signs of toxic friends.
4. Find your personal style
Being that girl also means finding your personal style.
Find that one style you’re obsessed with and which makes you feel good about yourself, and go for it.
If you want to be that girl, you’ll have to start dressing up however you want regardless of how other people feel about it.
If you tend to give up buying the clothes you find cute or doing your makeup a certain way to please other people, you’ll have to stop.
Trust me; when you start going for the style that makes you happy, you’ll shine even more. So start saving up as much as you can and make it your goal to buy your dream wardrobe.
5. Be yourself
Being that girl means showing up as your authentic self. It means being unapologetically you and not feeling like you have to fit in.
So if you want to be that girl, you’ll have to embrace and fall in love with who you are.
You’ll have to stop dimming your light to please other people, and you’ll have to get into the habit of not caring what other people think.
This is the only way you’ll actually become your best self: By being confident in who you are and who you want to become without feeling the pressure to be like someone else.
So if you want to be that girl, you’ll have to learn how to be yourself.
6. Hype Yourself Up
You literally need to start hyping yourself up.
No, you don’t understand how powerful this is. It will work wonders for your confidence and self-esteem.
Wake up every morning and tell yourself that you’re the baddest.
Look at yourself in the mirror before heading out and tell yourself that you look so cute.
Start telling yourself that you’re that girl, and you’ll start feeling like that girl.
In this world where many people try to put you down and make you feel like shit about yourself, you need to hype yourself up.
7. Practice self-care
If you want to become that girl, you’ll have to make self-care a habit.
It’s sooo easy to forget about yourself when you’re always busy with school, work, or taking care of others.
Start scheduling self-care time every day to help you reduce your stress and to boost your overall happiness.
Self-care is less about luxury bubble baths and more about doing what makes you happy and what is good for your overall health.
So start listening to your needs, and do more of those little things that make you happy.
Drink more water, declutter your mind, exercise, and get enough sleep if you want to be that girl.
If you don’t know where to start with self-care, check out this long list of self-care ideas.
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This post showed you 7 tips on how to be that girl and how to start showing up as your best self.
What are you going to start working on to become that girl? Let me know in the comment section below!
